Hope... That seems to be the theme of the new television series, The Golden Bachelor. Can finding a burning love be found in your 70’s? Yes, it can! That’s when I found MY Golden Bachelor and the love of my life. And why not? I still have a lot of living to do. I’m not dead yet! So, I decided to live, not exist. I love being in love, and I’m so grateful to feel cherished in return.
A friend of mine told me to try the dating site, eHarmony. As part of their process, they asked me to fill out a psychological questionnaire so that I could find my perfect match. It worked! My Golden Bachelor and I were over a 100% match, he is now my golden husband and soul mate!
After six years of being on my own, I decided to lift hope and watch it rise.
During the peak of the Covid epidemic, the quiet hours made loneliness an unwelcome companion. I was feeling isolated. Even though I was making a difference by doing good work during the epidemic at Kaiser Permanente, I needed to make a difference in my personal life.
I prepared myself. I prayed. I read Psalms for spiritual nourishment, dating books, and listened to dating podcasts to broaden my vision. My approach to dating was to get to know someone as a friend. I enjoyed the development of discovery that happened when peeling a lifetime of layers.
Through this discovery I found the depth of character that I desired.
This was golden!
At this age, I knew what I DIDN’T want. I knew I wanted a spiritual connection, a kind and caring person that would help me feel safe. I felt a spiritual bond, and this led me to open my heart, and that’s when Cupid’s arrow gently struck!
My Golden Bachelor was very thoughtful in preparing our dates and wrote me very romantic letters about his feelings. With caution, I embraced my vulnerability at an emotional level, and that started an intense physical chemistry. We were engaged and married on the beach in Hawaii in less than a year. After all, we weren’t getting any younger! LOL!
This year, we shared our second Honeymoon visiting the Greek islands.
Peaceful gratitude warms my heart full of love as I look forward to many more Honeymoons!
A note from my Love…
MY SWEETHEART FOREVER… YOUR SMILE CAPTURED MY HEART… YOUR HEART CAPTURED MY SOUL… WE ARE ONE FOR LIFE… ALL MY LOVE FOR YOU… YOUR SWEETHEART FOREVER!
“Never give up. Eagerly follow the Holy Spirit and serve the Lord. Let your hope make you glad. Be patient in time of trouble and never stop praying.”
– Romans 12: 11-12
It’s been a while since I posted on my blog, but you see, I’ve been busy being in love!
Wishing you the gift of love,
Maria Lauren
Aka: MariaElena Alberici-Blake
My website: www.MariaLauren.com
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